Full title: "Pantau in India" by Veronique Renard. She is one of the most inspirational women for me.
"She was born near Amsterdam in the Netherlands. In 2000, she immigrated to Asia. For nearly seven years, she lived in the hometown of the Dalai Lama in the Indian Himalayas. In the fall of 2006, Veronique moved to Thailand. Currently, she lives with her family in Bangkok."
"This compelling and inspiring story from the Himalayas will mesmerize the reader from the first to the last page. Pantau in India is a tale about fulfilling your dream and reaching your destiny. Pantau in India is the fascinating life story of Veronique Renard, a career woman who was struck by a severe depression at the turn of the millennium. On the night she wants to commit suicide, her inner voice tells her to stay alive and become the happiest person in the world.
Unsatisfied by her career as an office worker and busy modern lifestyle she questions her own values and moral ethics and determines that it is time for a major change. In order to find an answer to the question of how to become happy, she travels to India in search of the magic formula. In the Himalayas, she stumbles upon the Tibetan community in exile. The Tibetan refugees teach her the wisdom of their culture and Veronique sets off to travel on her newly discovered path to happiness.
The moment she stands eye to eye with the Dalai Lama she suddenly realizes that her life belongs to the Tibetan people. She burns all her ships behind her in the West, adopts the name Pantau, and moves to India to develop herself as a spiritual teacher and to show others the way to happiness."
In 2013, I interviewed her and asked her about the situation of transgender women in such countries as the Netherlands, India, Thailand, and China: "In some ways better than in the West, in other ways not. In Thailand, transsexuals are totally accepted by society, however, they can’t change their gender and name on their ID cards.
In 1985 I already had Female in my passport and birth certificate, but the Dutch society still doesn’t accept me.
In India, transsexuals are called Hijras and are totally different from all other transsexuals. They are half-gods and act as priests to bless wedding couples and newborn babies.
So it’s all very different from western cultures. I think transsexuals have fewer problems in Asia than effeminate gay men.
Generally, transsexuals in Asia are admired and many have celebrity status.
In Thailand, many effeminate gay boys decide to have a sex change in order to feel admired and accepted. Parents prefer a trans-child over a gay child. It’s also a way out of poverty. Transsexuals have many advantages and skills to make good money. They make a business out of their transsexualism."
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