A random collection of over 2078 books and audiobooks authored by or about my transgender, intersex sisters, and gender-nonconforming persons all over the world. I read some of them, and I was inspired by some of them. I met some of the authors and heroines, some of them are my best friends, and I had the pleasure and honor of interviewing some of them. If you know of any transgender biography that I have not covered yet, please let me know.
Full title: "California Girl: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Faith" by Chrissy Renaee.
California Girl: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Faith is a book that reads like an open wound and a victory song at the same time. Chrissy Renaee does not soften her story for comfort, nor does she dramatize it for spectacle. Instead, she invites the reader into a life lived on instinct, desperation, hope, and an unshakable desire to become herself, no matter the cost. From the very first pages, it is clear that this is not simply a memoir about moving across the country. It is a testimony about identity, survival, and the quiet courage it takes to keep going when everything familiar has already fallen away.
At just 23 years old, Chrissy leaves Georgia behind with four hundred dollars to her name and a red Honda Accord coupe that becomes both sanctuary and symbol. California represents freedom, reinvention, and possibility, but it also delivers indifference, exhaustion, and danger. The book captures this tension beautifully, showing how dreams can coexist with hunger, fear, and uncertainty. Chrissy’s early days in California are shaped by instability, sleeping on floors, chasing jobs, and learning quickly that hustle culture rarely rewards vulnerability. Her writing here is vivid and unflinching, placing the reader directly inside the anxiety of not knowing where you will sleep, how you will eat, or whether anyone truly sees you as human.
2025,
Chrissy Renaee,
English,
Full title: "A Year of E" by Jessica Faith.
“A Year of E” by Jessica Faith, published by Jessica Faith Kiszelewski, is an intimate and heartfelt account of one woman’s journey through gender transition. The book traces Jessica Faith’s experiences from her earliest memories as a child to her first year on hormones in her twenties, offering readers a deeply personal perspective on what it means to navigate life as a transgender individual. There is very little information available about this book on the internet, which makes discovering it feel like finding a hidden gem.
From the opening pages, the narrative draws the reader in as if they were sitting in the same room with the author, listening to her recount her struggles, triumphs, and moments of self-discovery with honesty and openness. The writing captures the complexity of emotions that accompany a gender transition, portraying both moments of joy and periods of uncertainty with equal sensitivity. Jessica Faith’s storytelling is clear and accessible, making it suitable for readers of all ages and backgrounds, and her reflections provide insight into the inner and outer challenges faced by transgender people.
2024,
English,
Jessica Faith,
Full title: "Get Off My Unicorn: Life Lessons from a Kinky, Polyamorous, Transsexual Lesbian Whose Kids Still Call Her “Dad”" by Katie Anne Holton.
Get OFF My Unicorn: Life Lessons from a Kinky, Polyamorous, Transsexual Lesbian Whose Kids Still Call Her “Dad” by Katie Anne Holton is the kind of book that arrives laughing, sits down uninvited on your couch, eats your snacks, and somehow leaves you wiser than when it showed up. It is bold, funny, intimate, occasionally outrageous, and unexpectedly tender, a collection that feels less like a lecture and more like a long, honest conversation with the smartest friend you know, the one who refuses to pretend life is neat, quiet, or easily categorized.
Katie Anne Holton is best known to millions of readers as a singular voice on Quora, where she spent over a decade answering questions that ranged from hilariously naive to painfully sincere. With more than seventy-two million views, her writing resonated because it did something rare, it treated human curiosity with respect while never taking human nonsense too seriously. She answered questions people were afraid to ask out loud, questions about sex, love, identity, parenting, and shame, and she did it with wit sharp enough to cut through hypocrisy and warmth deep enough to make even uncomfortable truths feel survivable.
2025,
English,
Interview,
Katie Anne Holton,
Full title: "This Little Light of Mine" by Jené Sais Quoi.
This Little Light of Mine by Jené Sais Quoi is not simply a memoir, it is an intimate confession, a reckoning, and ultimately a love letter to the self that survives beneath layers of performance, fear, and expectation. From the very first pages, the reader is drawn into a deeply human story of longing, reinvention, collapse, and rebirth, told with a voice that is both lyrical and unflinchingly honest.
This is a book that does not ask for sympathy, it asks for presence, and in return it offers recognition to anyone who has ever felt miscast in their own life.
Jené Sais Quoi’s journey begins in a small town that felt too narrow for her dreams and too rigid for her identity. From a young age, she sensed that something about her existence did not align with the role she was expected to play. She felt trapped in the wrong body, but even more profoundly, trapped in a narrative that left no room for softness, truth, or vulnerability. To survive, she learned to create a mask. That mask was not merely a defense, it became a finely crafted persona, polished through ambition, talent, and relentless self-discipline. What makes this memoir so compelling is how clearly Jené articulates the cost of that mask, how every layer of success added weight rather than freedom.
2025,
English,
Jené Sais Quoi,
Full title: "The King is Dead... Long live the Queen" by Julia Phillips.
“The King is Dead... Long Live the Queen” by Julia Phillips is not simply a book you read. It is a book you witness. From its opening pages to its quiet, devastatingly honest conclusion, it feels less like a constructed narrative and more like an open door into a life that has been lived under pressure, secrecy, longing, and finally, truth. It is a personal journal in the purest sense, unpolished where it needs to be, tender where it must be, and unflinchingly brave in its refusal to look away from pain.
At its heart, this work is a chronicle of heartbreak and love lost. It tells the story of the end of a grand romance, not in melodramatic terms, but in the slow, aching way that real love often ends. Julia writes with the clarity of someone who has had no choice but to sit with her grief, examine it from every angle, and eventually accept it. The relationship that dissolves across these pages is not treated as a failure, but as something meaningful and transformative, something that shaped her and ultimately pushed her toward a deeper reckoning with herself.
What makes the book extraordinary is that this love story runs parallel to another, more difficult one. The love story between Julia and her true self. Written as a form of therapy, the book documents a journey that spans despair, self-reflection, and frank acceptance before arriving at redemption, joy, and hope. Spread across four volumes, the journals capture the emotional reality of a trans woman confronting her gender head-on for the first time after fifty years of hiding behind a carefully constructed façade. This is not a sudden awakening or a neat moment of realization. It is a slow dismantling. When you reach the very end, all the walls fall down, and you see yourself for who you truly are.
2025,
English,
Julia Phillips,
UK,
Full title: "The Evolution of Jodi: The Truth I Carried" by Jodi Gray.
The Evolution of Jodi: The Truth I Carried is not a book that asks for admiration. It asks for attention, patience, and honesty. Jodi Gray does not write to impress the reader with triumph after triumph, but to sit beside them and speak plainly about what it costs to survive, to heal, and to finally belong to yourself. The result is a deeply human story, one that unfolds quietly yet powerfully, rooted in lived experience rather than slogans or easy resolutions.
Jodi Gray’s life has been shaped by contradiction from the very beginning. She grew up in a deeply religious, conservative Christian household in North Carolina, a place where rules were rigid, difference was dangerous, and silence was often the safest response. From an early age, she knew she was different, though she did not yet have the language to explain why. What she did know was that being different felt wrong in the world she was raised in, and that knowledge settled into her body as fear, shame, and isolation. Severe abuse and poverty marked her childhood, laying the groundwork for anxiety and depression that would follow her well into adulthood.
2025,
Canada,
English,
Jodi Gray,
Full Disclosure: A Memoir by Theresa Miles is a stirring and heartfelt continuation of a life story that began with her first book, Hiding in Plain Sight: Memoirs for Living, published in 2021. While her debut memoir explored years of struggle, concealment, and personal transformation, this sequel is a radiant celebration of renewal, authenticity, and triumph. It marks a complete 180-degree turn from the pain and challenges that once defined her existence. Written with the same honesty and grace that made her first book so powerful, Full Disclosure reveals what it truly means to embrace freedom after a lifetime of restraint and self-discovery.
The memoir opens during a significant turning point in Theresa’s life: her forced retirement amid the uncertainties of the COVID-19 pandemic. Faced with the difficult decision to accept a retirement package in 2020, she found herself at a crossroads between fear and liberation. Rather than allowing the situation to defeat her, Theresa used this moment to rediscover purpose and joy. She offers readers an unfiltered account of that transition, describing the anxiety, relief, and eventual empowerment that came with letting go of her professional identity. Her candor about vulnerability makes the narrative deeply relatable, while her resilience shines as a guiding light for others navigating major life changes.
2024,
Dana Abbott,
English,
Theresa Miles,
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2025,
Canada,
English,
Interview,
Mandy Goodhandy,
Full title: "Double Exposure: A Life Visible in Two Genders" by Meredith Lee and Derek Moo.
Double Exposure: A Life Visible in Two Genders by Meredith Lee and Derek Moo is not simply a memoir about gender, it is an invitation to sit with uncertainty, to question inherited rules, and to imagine a self that refuses to be flattened into a single definition. The book unfolds as a deeply personal, sometimes painful, often joyful exploration of what it means to live authentically when authenticity itself does not fit into familiar categories. From the first pages, the reader understands that this is not a story about choosing between male and female, but about living truthfully in both, at the same time, without apology.
At the heart of the memoir is a deceptively simple challenge. Society insists on binaries. Male and female. Before and after. One or the other. Meredith and Derek respond to that demand with a quiet but radical refusal. Maybe it is not a choice. Maybe it is something that simply is. Maybe it is both. This question echoes throughout the book, shaping not only the narrative but also the tone, which is reflective rather than declarative, curious rather than prescriptive. The authors do not offer rules or manifestos. Instead, they offer lived experience, with all its contradictions and unfinished edges.
Derek’s childhood is described with tenderness and restraint. As a shy and sensitive child, he sensed early on that the rules governing boys and girls were unfair, rigid, and oddly disconnected from how people actually felt inside. These realizations did not arrive with dramatic clarity, but as a low hum of discomfort that followed him through adolescence and into adulthood.
2025,
Australia,
Derek Moo,
English,
Meredith Lee,
Full title: "Birthing Me: Memoirs of a Transwoman" by Naina Menon.
The life of a girl born in a body that does not reflect her true self is an experience many people may find difficult to imagine, let alone fully understand. In societies where rigid ideas of gender still dominate everyday thinking, the journey toward self acceptance for a transwoman can be far more challenging than the moment of realization itself. Acceptance by family, institutions, and the wider world often comes slowly, if at all. It is within this complex emotional and social landscape that Naina Menon’s book, Birthing Me: Memoirs of a Transwoman, finds its voice, offering readers a deeply personal, honest, and ultimately hopeful account of one woman’s journey toward living her truth.
The book is a compilation of memoirs that brings together the events, encounters, and relationships that shaped Naina into the person she is today. Rather than presenting her life as a single dramatic arc, the narrative unfolds as a series of moments that collectively reveal the emotional weight of growing up with a gender identity that the world refused to see. From her early childhood, the reader is invited into the quiet confusion, unspoken fear, and longing that accompanied her earliest memories. These formative years are not portrayed merely as a time of pain, but also as a period of learning and observation, where Naina slowly began to understand herself even when she lacked the language or freedom to express it.
2024,
English,
India,
Naina Menon,
Full title: "This is Not a Stunt" by Cath Nichols.
Cath Nichols’s poetry collection This is Not a Stunt is built on a quietly radical premise: that living with disability or being trans is not a tragedy to be overcome, nor a narrative arc that demands redemption, heroism, or exceptional suffering. Instead, these poems insist on something far more subversive, the idea that such lives are simply ways of being, full of humour, romance, irritation, longing, boredom, love, and the slow accumulation of ordinary days. Nichols embraces both the mundane and the remarkable, reminding us that “We’re middle-aged, of course. Life rolls on,” and it is precisely this rolling on that gives the collection its emotional weight.
The book moves fluidly across time and place, revisiting Nichols’s childhood in New Zealand, her teenage years in Kent, and later decades spent on the gay scene in Manchester, complete with changing fashions, haircuts, and social codes. These shifts are not treated nostalgically or sentimentally, but as lived textures, moments that shape a self without needing to explain or justify it. The poems feel grounded in experience rather than theory, even when they are engaging with ideas that are politically and philosophically charged. Bodies, identities, and relationships are presented as processes rather than destinations, as acts of becoming rather than problems to be solved.
2017,
Cath Nichols,
English,
UK,
Full title: "Becoming Tamara: My Story of Transition From Male to Female" by Tamara Rivera.
Tamara Rivera’s memoir “Becoming Tamara: My Story of Transition From Male to Female” is more than a personal narrative. It is a testament to the power of truth, courage, and the unyielding human spirit that fights its way toward the light even when surrounded by years of shadow. Her book invites readers into a life shaped by hardship and reborn through authenticity, a story that unfolds with honesty and deep emotional resonance. Reading it feels like sitting across from Tamara herself as she recounts the moments that tested her, the memories that shaped her, and the transformation that ultimately liberated her.
From the first pages, Tamara’s voice emerges with striking clarity. She writes not as someone seeking sympathy but as a woman determined to share the truth of her lived experience. Her childhood was not painted with ease. It was threaded with confusion, fear, and the ache of hiding a self she could not yet name. The world placed expectations on her that never fit, yet she carried them because she had no other choice. The decades that followed were marked by the difficult balancing act so many transgender people know too well, the one where survival becomes a habit rather than a life. Tamara takes the reader through these years without bitterness. Instead, she reflects on them with the perspective of a woman who has finally stepped into her rightful place and looks back only to illuminate the path for others.
2025,
English,
Tamara Rivera,
Full title: "I need to be myself: 100 transgender poems" by Katie Wilson.
Katie Wilson’s book I Need to Be Myself: 100 Transgender Poems is not simply a poetry collection. It is a diary of awakening, a record of years when a life quietly rearranged itself, and a soul finally found vocabulary for feelings that had slept for decades. The poems were written between September 2015 and July 2017, a period when Katie first allowed herself to explore crossdressing and when she finally understood that this exploration was not a curiosity but a recognition of something essential inside her. Poetry had always been her natural language. She had written verses for years, long before she ever took a dress from a hanger or shaped her name into Katie. When her identity began to rise to the surface, poetry rose with it and gave form to what was happening. The result is this collection. One hundred pieces that show the stumbling, reaching, glowing, frightening, liberating messiness of realizing you are a transgender woman.
2017,
Crossdressing,
English,
Katie Wilson,
Full title: "Make Haste Slowly: The Mike Duff Story" by Michelle Duff.
Michelle Duff’s Make Haste Slowly: The Mike Duff Story stands as one of the most vivid and intimate chronicles of grand prix motorcycle racing ever written. It is important to state from the outset that the book is not about her transition or her later life as Michelle. Instead, it is a deep dive into the racing world of Mike Duff, the Canadian athlete who carved his name into the history of the Continental Circus during the golden age of the sport. The book is a celebration of speed, technical mastery, courage, and the relentless pursuit of excellence at a time when the world of motorcycle racing was changing at an unprecedented pace.
At the heart of the story is Mike Duff, the first North American and the only Canadian to claim a victory in a world championship grand prix motorcycle race. Across the pages, Duff’s accomplishments unfold with the clarity of lived memory rather than mere historical retelling. The book captures the thrill of the 1964 250 Belgian Grand Prix at Spa Francorchamps, where Duff claimed his first world championship win on one of the most challenging circuits ever built. It then moves into the exhilarating 1965 season when he stood again atop the winner’s rostrum at the 125 Dutch Grand Prix at Assen in the Netherlands and yet again at the 250 Finnish Grand Prix at Imatra. These victories form the backbone of a career that combined raw determination with technical brilliance and a deep connection to the machines he rode.
2011,
Canada,
English,
Michelle Duff,
Full title: "Sethie to Venus: My Story of Becoming a Trans Mystic on my Spiritual Journey to Happiness" by Venus Rountree.
Sethie to Venus: My Story of Becoming a Trans Mystic on my Spiritual Journey to Happiness by Venus Rountree is a sweeping, intimate memoir that carries the reader through decades of pain, healing, and spiritual discovery. Venus opens her story in the 1960s, a period often romanticized as a time of liberation and cultural transformation, yet for her it unfolded as a childhood marked by trauma, neglect, and the perpetual ache of feeling unseen. As a child of divorce at a time when such fractures were still spoken of in hushed tones, she grew up wrestling with the consequences of abandonment while surviving an environment steeped in instability. In this vulnerable space, she began to develop the questions and longings that would later guide her toward mysticism and self-understanding.
Her early life was shaped by the upheaval of the era: the soundtrack of rock and roll playing against the backdrop of broken homes, shifting social norms, and a world that refused to recognize the identity she carried quietly within her. Venus describes how the California Department of Corrections system became an unexpected chapter of her life, one where past trauma collided with an institution ill-equipped to understand the complexity of her needs. Within those walls she struggled not only with the weight of her history but also with the mental health challenges that had followed her since childhood, including post-traumatic stress disorder and the constant feeling of having to fight simply to exist.
2024,
English,
Venus Rountree,
Full title: "All About Yvie: Into the Oddity" by Yvie Oddly and Michael Bach.
All About Yvie: Into the Oddity, co-written by Yvie Oddly and Michael Bach, is a deeply personal exploration of the life of one of the world’s most unconventional and celebrated drag artists. The memoir traces Yvie’s journey from childhood to international stardom, offering readers an unflinching look at the challenges and triumphs that shaped their identity, artistry, and relationships. Born Jovan Jordan Bridges on August 22, 1993, in Denver, Colorado, Yvie’s early years were marked by a fascination with makeup and dress-up, often in defiance of traditional gender expectations.
Even as a six-year-old, Bridges expressed joy and comfort in skirts and makeup, a preference that would later evolve into the signature drag persona the world now knows. Gymnastics and other physically demanding activities were a part of their youth until a diagnosis of Ehlers-Danlos syndrome at fifteen prompted a shift toward musical theatre, providing an alternative avenue for physical expression and performance. Yvie’s first encounter with drag came in middle school through the theatrical creativity of a classmate, inspiring their own playful exploration of costuming, attention, and performance. Their formative years included attending East High School and later the Auraria Campus in Denver, both of which contributed to the foundation of their artistry and understanding of self.
2024,
Drag queen,
English,
Yvie Oddly,
Full title: "Becoming Her: Transitioning After Forty" by Mallery GenX.
In a culture that glorifies wrinkle-free ambition and the illusion that personal reinvention expires sometime before your twenty-ninth birthday, Mallery GenX arrives with a story that gently but firmly sweeps that myth aside. Her memoir, Becoming Her: Transitioning After Forty, is an intimate testament to the truth that transformation does not diminish with age. If anything, it becomes richer, deeper, and undeniably more honest. Mallery steps into her womanhood not with the blinding glare of youthful urgency, but with the hard-earned clarity of lived experience. She is not trying to outrun time. She is trying to meet herself.
Before she ever questioned her own reflection, Mallery spent more than two decades helping other people assemble theirs. As a salon owner and stylist, she built confidence with scissors, color, and conversation. She knew how to craft beauty for others down to the smallest detail. What she did not know was how to navigate the quiet ache sitting beneath her own exterior, a longing planted in childhood when she wished she could “be a gul,” spoken in the language of innocence long before she understood what it meant. That longing follows her into adulthood, shadowing her successes and celebrations until the day she finally allows it to take shape in the open.
2025,
English,
Mallery GenX,
Full title: "All I ever wanted was just to be me" by Sophie Haugh.
Sophie Haugh’s book All I Ever Wanted Was Just to Be Me is an emotional, raw, and deeply personal journey through the complex and often misunderstood experience of gender transition. It is more than a memoir; it is a chronicle of four decades of longing, perseverance, and courage. Over the span of thirty-nine years, Sophie recorded her thoughts, experiences, and emotions, creating a powerful diary of what it means to live a life feeling trapped in the wrong body, and the eventual liberation of becoming who she always knew she was meant to be.
From the very first pages, the reader is drawn into the world of a young boy who senses early on that something about him does not align with what the world expects. This realization, while profound, becomes a lifelong struggle as Sophie faces confusion, rejection, and the internal torment of not being seen for who she truly is. The story unfolds through real events and genuine feelings, revealing both the painful and joyful moments that shaped her life. It is a book that captures the full spectrum of human emotion, fear, despair, hope, and, ultimately, triumph.
2024,
English,
Sophie Haugh,
Full title: "Venus Rising: The Unfinished Life of a Ballroom Icon Venus Xtravaganza" by Eleanor Hystoré.
Eleanor Hystoré’s Venus Rising: The Unfinished Life of a Ballroom Icon Venus Xtravaganza is a work of deep tenderness and fierce illumination. It reaches beyond the glitter of the ballroom floor to reveal the woman behind one of the most unforgettable faces of queer history. Through graceful prose and unflinching honesty, Hystoré brings Venus Pellagatti Xtravaganza back to life, tracing her journey from a teenage dreamer in Jersey City to a radiant symbol of self-creation and resilience in 1980s New York.
The book opens in the small, crowded home where Venus was born on May 5, 1965, the youngest of several siblings in an Italian-Puerto Rican family. Hystoré paints these early years with sensitivity, showing a child already attuned to beauty, movement, and performance. Venus’s first steps toward becoming herself were met with the kind of confusion and rejection familiar to many transgender people of her era. She left home young, seeking a world where her reflection would match her spirit. That world, she soon discovered, existed in the shadowy brilliance of the Harlem ballrooms.
It is here that Hystoré’s storytelling truly begins to shimmer.
2025,
Eleanor Hystoré,
English,
Venus Xtravaganza,
Robyn Casias, also known as Skyler Lott, continues her profound and emotionally charged literary journey through gender, identity, and transformation in her second book, Manlyhood, part of the four-volume series As the Carousel Turns: Gender War. The series traces a deeply personal evolution that begins with Gender Queer, continues through Manlyhood, and expands into The Great Gender Wall of China and Here Comes Meili, Ready or Not. Each book represents a distinct stage of Robyn’s transformation from living as a biologically male individual into embracing her authentic self as a woman. Yet it is in Manlyhood that the author’s internal conflict reaches its most intense and revealing stage, as she builds and then unravels the male persona she was forced to inhabit for much of her life.
In Gender Queer, readers first meet Meili, the author’s inner feminine essence, a joyful, curious, and expressive girl who existed from her earliest memories. Meili’s world was one of imagination, color, and self-expression, but society’s expectations and the limitations of the world around her forced that light to dim. The young Meili was not allowed to bloom openly, and so the author created a mask, a male persona she called Manly. This constructed self became both a shield and a prison, a way to survive in a world that did not understand her.
2020,
English,
Robyn Casias,
Skyler Lott,