A random collection of over 1994 books and audiobooks authored by or about my transgender, intersex sisters, and gender-nonconforming persons all over the world. I read some of them, and I was inspired by some of them. I met some of the authors and heroines, some of them are my best friends, and I had the pleasure and honor of interviewing some of them. If you know of any transgender biography that I have not covered yet, please let me know.
Full title: "Beyond Gender Binaries: The History of Trans, Intersex, and Third-Gender Individuals (History of the LGBTQ+ Rights Movement)" by Rita Santos.
Rita Santos’s Beyond Gender Binaries: The History of Trans, Intersex, and Third-Gender Individuals opens with a bold and compassionate mission to remind readers that gender diversity is not a modern invention but a timeless reality woven through human history. Santos dives into the deep and often overlooked history of gender variance, exploring how people across time and cultures have lived, loved, and existed beyond the narrow categories of male and female. She writes with an awareness that while societies may have used different terms, gestures, or rituals to describe gender-nonconforming individuals, the essence of those experiences has always been part of humanity’s story.
From ancient civilizations to contemporary movements, the book traces how concepts of gender have been understood and redefined. Readers are taken on a journey through societies where gender diversity was celebrated as sacred and others where it was punished or erased. Santos highlights, for example, the revered roles of two-spirit people among Indigenous nations in North America, the hijras of South Asia who have existed for centuries as a recognized third gender, and the sworn virgins of the Balkans who challenged gender norms for social or familial reasons. Through these stories, the author shows that gender variance is neither new nor rare, but an enduring thread in the fabric of human life.
2018,
English,
Rita Santos,
Full title: "My 60 Years To Womanhood" by Cathy Heart.
Cathy Heart’s My 60 Years To Womanhood stands as a remarkable chronicle of courage, endurance, and the lifelong pursuit of authenticity. It is not simply a memoir but a testament to identity and resilience, beginning with a universal truth that transcends gender or orientation, that the world can be a hard and often hostile place for those who do not easily fit into society’s pre-drawn boxes. Through the lens of Cathy’s sixty-year journey, the reader is invited into a deeply personal and profoundly human story about living as a transgender woman in a world that has not always been kind or understanding. Her story is both an intimate confession and a quiet revolution, one that asks readers to abandon prejudice and embrace empathy.
At its heart, this book is about time, how much of it can be spent trying to live up to others’ expectations, and how precious it becomes once a person decides to live for themselves. Cathy’s journey toward womanhood is not a straight line but a long, looping path filled with uncertainty, discovery, and a stubborn kind of hope. From her earliest awareness of a dissonance between body and mind to her later years navigating a medical and social landscape that often seemed indifferent, Cathy tells her story with an honesty that is both raw and graceful. Her reflections give shape to an experience many transgender people know too well: that being Trans is not a choice, nor a condition to be “cured,” but an integral part of one’s being that deserves understanding rather than judgment.
2024,
Cathy Heart,
English,
Full title: "Closest Thing to Heaven: A Memoir" by Michael DaQueen.
In Closest Thing to Heaven: A Memoir, Michael DaQueen opens the curtain on the messy, magnificent, and utterly magnetic first three years of her life in New York City. This is not a polished fairy tale of instant stardom but a confessional scrapbook of heartbreaks, drag shows, and late-night subway rides, written with the rhythm of a queen who’s equal parts performer and poet. DaQueen, a self-proclaimed hopeless romantic and proud West Coast transplant, invites readers to walk beside her through the glitter-streaked chaos of becoming an artist in a city that both seduces and devours. It’s a book that doesn’t just tell a story, it dances, lip-syncs, and sometimes limps through one.
From her earliest memories of sitting beside her mother as Sex and the City played on television, little Michael dreamed of Manhattan’s magic. The skyline was her fairy godmother; the flashing lights of Broadway were her birthright. Yet before she ever set foot on those fabled streets, she was cutting her teeth in the suburbs of Los Angeles, hosting drag shows in neighborhood bars where regulars cheered from barstools and queens borrowed wigs from one another. The pandemic shut that world down, but it also cracked open the possibility of something new. When her local bar announced it wasn’t reopening, she felt a tug, part grief, part destiny. She packed up her life, said goodbye to California, and landed in New York in the spring of 2021, with a suitcase full of sequins and a heart still healing from a breakup.
2024,
Drag queen,
English,
Michael DaQueen,
Full title: "Beyond Trans" by Ash Jackson.
Ash Jackson’s book Beyond Trans reads like a symphony of survival, a raw and haunting exploration of one woman’s journey through chaos, creation, and courage. It opens with the rhythms of childhood, where Ash dreamed of fame and music filled her imagination with the promise of escape. Even as a young girl growing up in a world that didn’t yet understand her, she found solace in sound. Her guitar became a refuge, a place where the noise of confusion and self-doubt could transform into melody. The early years were marked by longing and insecurity, the kind that festers quietly when you’re different but can’t yet name why. The music was her first language of truth, a way to say what words couldn’t.
As her talent blossomed, Ash built a remarkable career that would eventually stretch across more than three decades. She became one of Australia’s most versatile musicians, an accomplished guitarist, songwriter, composer, and producer. Her work spanned genres and industries: rock and pop albums, film and television scores, orchestral compositions, experimental soundscapes, and even a leap into TV production with the creation of Oz Fish TV, a quirky and successful fishing show now airing on Channel 7mate and Foxtel. Behind this artistic versatility was a perfectionist who had honed her craft with relentless discipline. She graduated from the Box Hill Institute of Performing Arts with an Advanced Diploma in Music Performance and a Bachelor of Music in composition, collecting awards along the way for academic excellence and compositional brilliance. On paper, it all looked like triumph. But Ash’s story is a reminder that the brightest spotlight often casts the darkest shadow.
2024,
Ash Jackson,
Australia,
English,
Full title: "Transgender Woman: A journey of identity" by Racheal Fickarz.
Racheal Fickarz’s book Transgender Woman: A Journey of Identity offers a profound exploration of what it means to embrace oneself fully and embark on the path of self-discovery. The narrative is both heartfelt and insightful, capturing the courage required to confront societal expectations, personal fears, and the unknown challenges of transitioning. This is not a guide that simply lists steps or medical procedures; it is a testament to the resilience, perseverance, and authenticity that define the transgender experience.
Each chapter immerses the reader in the emotional landscape of a transgender woman, highlighting the moments of doubt, triumph, and self-realization that accompany such a transformative journey. The author emphasizes that transitioning encompasses far more than physical changes; it involves cultivating mental well-being, nurturing emotional stability, and navigating social dynamics in a world that often misunderstands or stigmatizes transgender identities. Through vivid anecdotes and reflective passages, Fickarz provides a framework that respects the individuality of each woman’s path, ensuring that readers feel seen and supported at every stage of their own journey.
2024,
English,
Racheal Fickarz,
Full title: "She/Him/Us: A Psychiatrist's Search for Her Daughter in the Transgender Sea" by Lisa Bellot.
In her striking and deeply personal memoir She/Him/Us: A Psychiatrist’s Search for Her Daughter in the Transgender Sea, Dr. Lisa Bellot confronts one of the most emotionally charged issues of our time through the lens of both a psychiatrist and a mother. The book chronicles her journey as she navigates the turbulent waters of her daughter’s sudden identification as transgender, a revelation that forced her to question not only her medical training but also her most intimate instincts as a parent. What emerges is a gripping and reflective narrative that challenges prevailing assumptions about gender identity, the mental health profession, and what it truly means to love and protect one’s child.
Dr. Bellot’s story begins with the shock and confusion that many parents of trans-identified teens experience. As a seasoned psychiatrist with two decades of clinical experience in California, she believed she had seen nearly everything the human mind could present. Yet when her own teenage daughter announced she was trans, Bellot found herself facing an entirely new emotional and moral frontier. She describes the moment with raw vulnerability, not as a detached clinician but as a mother whose world has tilted off its axis. Her initial instinct was not to affirm, but to pause and understand. The question that drives the memoir is not simply whether her daughter is transgender, but how a parent can respond when every cultural, medical, and social current demands unquestioning affirmation while her inner voice insists that something deeper needs to be explored.
2025,
English,
Lisa Bellot,
Full title: "You Don't Know My Story" by Whitney Sealey (Destiny Star).
Whitney Sealey’s You Don’t Know My Story, published under her pen name Destiny Star, stands as both a novel and a manifesto of authenticity. It is a deeply intimate yet universally resonant narrative that chronicles the life of Whitney, a transgender woman in her early thirties whose story is told with emotional precision and spiritual grace. More than a simple tale of transition, it is a meditation on truth, resilience, and the human capacity to reclaim one’s narrative in a world that often refuses to listen.
The book opens with Whitney’s morning ritual, a seemingly ordinary moment that soon reveals the core of her character. She looks into the mirror not out of vanity but out of reverence for survival. Her reflection becomes a sacred space, where she acknowledges the woman she fought to become. The world around her may still stumble over her existence, but Whitney refuses to shrink herself for anyone’s comfort. She moves through her days as a luxury brand consultant, gliding through polished offices and glamorous events, yet beneath the elegance lies a lifetime of scars. Sealey juxtaposes Whitney’s outer poise with her inner history, allowing readers to see that confidence, for Whitney, is not effortless, it is earned, shaped through pain and persistence.
2025,
Destiny Star,
English,
Whitney Sealey,
Full title: "Two Lives, One Soul: A Transgender Memoir of Identity of Gender, Loss, and Redemption" by Shearee K.
Two Lives, One Soul: A Transgender Memoir of Identity, Loss, and Redemption by Shearee K is a profoundly intimate and courageous account of what it means to live between worlds, to lose oneself, and to finally emerge whole. The memoir captures the delicate balance between despair and hope, exploring the emotional landscape of a person who has lived not one, but two lives within a single soul. Through a voice that is both poetic and unflinchingly honest, Shearee invites the reader to witness her evolution from pain to power, from invisibility to authenticity, and from loss to redemption.
The book begins by revealing the internal conflict of a person growing up in a world that often refuses to understand or accept difference. Shearee writes with a clarity that cuts through pretense, describing the experience of living a life shaped by others’ expectations while her true identity remained buried beneath fear and uncertainty. Her story moves through the formative years of self-doubt, societal rejection, and the relentless pursuit of belonging. Each chapter feels like a conversation with the soul itself, asking who we are when everything familiar is stripped away and how one learns to rebuild when the world demands conformity.
2025,
English,
Shearee K,
Full title: "I Know Who I Am: The Ballad of a Transgender Woman" by Samantha Rose and Christine Matheny.
When Samantha Rose opens her book I Know Who I Am: The Ballad of a Transgender Woman, she takes the reader into the raw depths of memory, pain, and transformation. The story begins when she was fourteen, at a time when her world was suddenly fractured by tragedy. Her best friend, Amanda Carson, disappeared on April 16, 2005. Amanda was later found dead in a trash barrel behind the Galesburg mall, an image so haunting that it becomes a defining shadow in Samantha’s life. Amanda had been the first person to truly see her, to understand her difference and encourage her to be herself. The loss of that friendship marked the beginning of Samantha’s awareness of the cruelty and fragility that can exist in life. In those same dark days, she also learned that her mother had cancer, a revelation that sent her spiraling into a storm of depression and uncertainty. The combination of grief, fear, and confusion pushed her inward, where she began to grapple with questions of identity and purpose that would echo through her entire life.
At home, the situation was far from comforting. Samantha’s relationship with her father was a source of constant pain. He never accepted her differences, never tolerated her sensitivity or her refusal to conform to his expectations of masculinity. He was, in her own words, a monster wrapped in human flesh, someone who abused his wife and children with a cruelty that left lasting scars. The household was a battlefield, where survival often depended on silence and endurance. For Samantha, this experience of relentless violence became both a source of trauma and a crucible of strength. It showed her how destructive intolerance could be, but it also taught her resilience, and it planted within her a determination to live authentically, even when authenticity came with a price.
2025,
Amanda Carson,
Christine Matheny,
English,
Samantha Rose,
Full title: "Becoming Luna: A Chronicle of Shadow and Light" by Luna Carper.
In the first few pages of Becoming Luna: A Chronicle of Shadow and Light, Luna Carper describes her former name, Brian, as “a heavy coat she was expected to wear.” It is an image that lingers long after the chapter ends, the weight of that coat symbolizing all the expectations, assumptions, and constraints placed upon her before she could even begin to understand who she truly was. What begins as a simple account of childhood discomfort quickly transforms into something extraordinary: the awakening of a soul determined to live in truth, even if that truth must be forged in the fires of digital worlds, shadowed dreams, and unrelenting self-discovery.
Carper’s memoir is not a typical transition story. It is a spellbook of becoming, written at the intersection of technology, magic, and identity. Each chapter feels like an incantation, casting light on the moments when Luna’s reality began to shift. From battling a childhood allergy that hinted at something deeper to discovering freedom within the pixelated landscapes of World of Warcraft, Luna finds pieces of herself in every digital echo. In those virtual realms she meets her first loves and encounters the mentors who see beyond her glamour spell, the digital façade she wore to hide her inner truth.
2025,
English,
Luna Carper,
Full title: "Fly on the Wall: The Story of a Courageous Trans Woman – From Prison to Post" by Ariyanna Lampley and Samari The Goddess.
“If you could be a fly on the wall and see what I see…” begins the haunting and defiant premise of Fly on the Wall: The Story of a Courageous Trans Woman – From Prison to Post by Ariyanna Lampley and Samari The Goddess. There is very little information available about the book, and beyond its brief description on Amazon, it seems to exist as one of those hidden gems waiting to be discovered. What we do know is that it tells the story of Samari the Goddess, a transgender woman who has survived the brutality of the prison system and emerged with her dignity, her artistry, and her voice intact.
The book’s title alone captures something both poetic and unsettling. To be a fly on the wall is to witness without being seen, to observe the unspoken truth of things. In Samari’s case, that truth is the reality of being a transgender woman behind bars, a world of fear, violence, and survival. Incarcerated transgender women often live in a space that denies their very identity. Many are placed in men’s prisons, where they face harassment and sexual assault. Basic medical care, including access to hormones or gender-affirming treatment, is often withheld. Even something as simple as being called by one’s chosen name can become a daily battle.
2025,
Ariyanna Lampley,
English,
Samari The Goddess,
Full title: "Love, Me: Letters I Wrote When I Wanted to Disappear" by Dee Grachek.
Dee Grachek’s Love, Me: Letters I Wrote When I Wanted to Disappear is a hauntingly beautiful memoir that refuses to fit into neat literary categories. It is part confession, part prayer, and part poetry, written in the form of letters that bare the author’s soul with startling vulnerability. Through these letters, Dee Grachek opens the door to her interior world, inviting readers into the quiet spaces where shame and hope coexist, where faith and fear wrestle, and where a woman learns to love herself into being after years of silence.
Each letter feels like a breath held too long finally being released. Dee writes to God, to hope, to her younger self, to the Church that turned its back on her, to the body that has been both home and battleground, to the father whose love she yearned for, and even to the songs she can no longer sing but still remembers. These letters are not simply addressed to others, they reach inward and outward at once, touching every reader who has ever felt unseen or unworthy. The addressees are sometimes literal and sometimes symbolic, but each one reveals another layer of Dee’s life as a transgender woman learning to exist unapologetically in a world that often tells her she should not.
2025,
Dee Grachek,
English,
Full title: "Barbra Amesbury: Voice of Courage: A Journey Through Music, Identity, and Advocacy" by Charles Tyler JR.
In a world that so often insists on sameness, on fitting neatly into prescribed boxes of identity, appearance, and belief, what does it mean to live authentically? Charles Tyler Jr.’s Barbra Amesbury: Voice of Courage: A Journey Through Music, Identity, and Advocacy answers this question not through theory, but through the life of a woman who defied every expectation placed before her. This sweeping biography of Barbra Amesbury traces the evolution of a Canadian cultural icon who transformed herself and her art with breathtaking honesty, becoming a symbol of resilience, integrity, and creative defiance. Tyler’s portrait of Amesbury is not simply a chronicle of one artist’s career, but a meditation on the human right to live as one truly is, no matter the cost.
2025,
Barbra Amesbury,
Canada,
English,
Full title: "My Treasure Chest: A Journey to Find the Key to My Happiness" by Paola Elena Flores. The book was originally published in Spanish under the title "Mi Cofre del Tesoro: Un viaje para encontrar la llave de mi felicidad".
In her deeply moving memoir My Treasure Chest: A Journey to Find the Key to My Happiness, Paola Elena Flores invites readers into an intimate exploration of identity, faith, and self-discovery. Originally published in Spanish under the title Mi Cofre del Tesoro: Un viaje para encontrar la llave de mi felicidad, the book opens with a simple but profound metaphor. Each of us, Flores explains, arrives in this world with a treasure chest brimming with joy, hope, and happiness. Inside are the things that make life meaningful: love, connection, creativity, and purpose. Yet this chest is locked, and to access its riches, we need the right key.
In her narrative, Flores examines the ways we often inherit keys from others. Parents, teachers, pastors, and relatives, acting out of love and good intentions, hand us their versions of happiness. They tell us that their faith, traditions, and lifestyles will unlock our own chests. We believe them, because we trust them, and we try to make their keys fit. Sometimes they open a small corner of the lid, revealing a glimpse of what lies within, but more often they do not work at all. Flores captures the heartbreak of realizing that the tools given to us by others cannot always open the lock meant for us.
2025,
English,
Mexico,
Paola Elena Flores,
Full title: "The Bitch in the Mirror: Silence, Survival, and Liberation" by Alessia Burst.
Alessia Burst’s The Bitch in the Mirror: Silence, Survival, and Liberation is not the kind of memoir that tiptoes around discomfort or softens its truths for polite company. It is a punch in the gut and a hand reaching out all at once. From the first page, Burst makes it clear that her story will not whisper. It will scream, laugh, bleed, and dance its way through the wreckage of addiction, silence, and shame until only survival remains. Written with a mix of dark humor, sarcasm, and naked vulnerability, this memoir captures the paradox of being a trans woman in a world that prefers quiet compliance. Instead, Burst chooses noise.
Growing up queer in Montana, Alessia Burst learned early that silence was both a weapon and a survival tool. Her upbringing was steeped in unspoken rules about gender, family, and sin. When she married, it was not love that guided her but the crushing weight of expectation. Her descent into alcoholism was not a sudden fall but a slow, methodical erasure of self. The bottle became both her armor and her escape, until her body finally rebelled and she was told she had five years left to live. For many, that would have been an epitaph. For Burst, it became a deadline for rebirth.
2025,
Alessia Burst,
English,
Full title: "Trans Anthology Project: Reflections of Self-Discovery and Acceptance" by Heather H Kirby and Chrissy Boylan.
The Trans Anthology Project: Reflections of Self-Discovery and Acceptance, edited by Heather H. Kirby and Chrissy Boylan, is a remarkable book that brings together over two hundred firsthand accounts from transgender and nonbinary youth, as well as from parents striving to understand and support them. The book serves as both an anthology and a guide, blending deeply personal reflections with educational insight. It stands as a compassionate, courageous, and illuminating collection that not only documents diverse experiences of gender but also nurtures understanding and empathy in a world that continues to struggle with acceptance and inclusion.
The power of this anthology lies in its honesty. Each story, written in the authentic voice of its author, invites the reader into the deeply personal terrain of self-discovery. Some contributors speak of early childhood awareness, others of the long and winding path toward self-acceptance. The voices of parents reveal their own parallel journeys, often beginning in confusion or fear and evolving toward unconditional love and advocacy. These accounts remind readers that the process of understanding gender diversity is not a single moment of revelation but an ongoing dialogue between the self, family, and society.
2024,
Chrissy Boylan,
English,
Heather H Kirby,
Full title: "A Letter to Pawtone: From Barrio to Transgender Pioneer" by Arlina A.
A Letter to Pawtone: From Barrio to Transgender Pioneer by Arlina A. is an intimate, heartfelt autobiography that captures one woman’s extraordinary journey of self-discovery, courage, and transformation. Through diary entries that begin when she was just seven years old, Arlina chronicles a lifetime of experiences shaped by culture, faith, and the quiet but unshakable desire to live authentically. Born in 1934 in Phoenix, Arizona, to Mexican immigrant parents, she began life as Arnold, a child growing up in the Golden Gate Barrio. Her early years were marked by the warmth of a large family and the richness of cultural traditions that offered comfort amid the struggles of poverty and prejudice. The barrio was alive with music, laughter, and the sounds of a community that held together through love and faith. For young Arnold, those years were also a time of quiet confusion, as he sensed a profound difference between how the world saw him and who he knew himself to be.
The book captures this duality beautifully, drawing readers into the vivid world of postwar America through references to the movies, television shows, and music that filled Arlina’s youth. Popular culture became both an escape and an expression of hope, something she shared with her siblings and friends. Yet beneath the surface of everyday joys lay a deeper longing that no amount of playacting or pretense could suppress. Arlina describes how she preferred the company of girls and found solace in imagination, where she could explore her true self without fear or judgment. These reflections offer a window into the emotional complexity of growing up transgender in a time when such words were barely whispered.
Full title: "Brave: Story of a Trans Woman" by K. K.
In an era when the voices of transgender people are finally beginning to take their rightful place in mainstream literature, memoirs have become vital windows into the lived experiences of communities too often misrepresented or silenced. Among these narratives, Brave: Story of a Trans Woman by K. K. stands out as a striking testament to the power of truth-telling, resilience, and unapologetic authenticity.
At its core, Brave is more than a memoir; it is a declaration of selfhood. It captures the tumultuous, often painful journey of a transgender woman who grew up with the weight of misalignment between body and identity, endured the scars of a dysfunctional and abusive childhood, and nonetheless found a way to step into her fullness with dignity and joy. Through her words, readers are invited into both the struggles and the radiant triumphs that shape the trans experience.
The book opens with the raw emotional reality of living in a gender that does not align with one’s inner truth. K. does not shy away from describing the loneliness, shame, and confusion of her early years. Her childhood, marked by instability and emotional harm, becomes the backdrop against which her resilience shines even brighter. While the pain of being unseen and misunderstood echoes through these pages, the memoir never settles into despair. Instead, it moves steadily toward a narrative of transformation, showing that even in the darkest environments, the spark of authenticity can never be extinguished.
Full title: "Gender Explorers: Our Stories of Growing Up Trans and Changing The World" by Juno Roche.
Juno Roche’s Gender Explorers: Our Stories of Growing Up Trans and Changing the World is one of those rare books that feels like both a mirror and a window. It is a mirror for young trans people who have rarely seen themselves represented with such honesty, joy, and hope, and it is a window for everyone else to see what is possible when children are supported in their gender journeys instead of being stifled by fear or prejudice. The book opens with a striking belief that sets the tone for everything that follows: children who are questioning and exploring their gender are the gender bosses we so desperately need, they are our future. In this spirit, Juno offers a collection of interviews that let trans children and young people speak in their own words, not as case studies or statistics, but as whole human beings with dreams, fears, humor, and a vision of their lives.
The structure of the book is deceptively simple. Juno sits down with trans children, teenagers, and their families, and together they talk about the things that matter most to them: what it feels like to come out, what kinds of support have been essential, what makes them hopeful, and what worries they carry with them. The voices of parents and carers are included as well, showing the way love and acceptance from family can transform what might otherwise be a hostile world into a place where flourishing is possible. The result is a moving chorus of voices, each one unique, but together painting a picture of resilience and joy. These are not tragic tales of suffering that dominate so much of mainstream media when it comes to trans lives. Instead, they are affirmations of existence, proof that with love, recognition, and space to explore, trans children live fully and dream boldly.
2020,
English,
Interview,
Juno Roche,
Full title: "From 'Ka' To 'Ki' - Biography Of A Transgender Woman: A 'Transformation Through Strength And Resilience" by Lakshmi Ajoy.
Dr. Lakshmi Ajoy’s book From “Ka” To “Ki” – Biography of a Transgender Woman: A “Transformation Through Strength and Resilience is not merely a biography; it is a mirror reflecting both the cruelty and the hope of our world. At the heart of this work lies the extraordinary life of Deepika Naiduu, a woman who endured unimaginable pain yet rose to claim her identity with courage and grace. Her life is one of survival against betrayal, abuse, and relentless social rejection, but it is also one of rebirth, love, and resilience.
Deepika was born into a world that could not accept her truth. She grew up carrying the weight of rejection, enduring physical and emotional abuse that would have broken many spirits. The shadows of cruelty followed her, yet amidst the bleakness she found small islands of compassion. A handful of people, who saw her not as an outcast but as a human being worthy of love and respect, gave her the strength to keep moving forward. Their belief in her became the scaffolding on which she built her new life. Through them, she learned to embrace her true identity, ultimately transitioning and stepping into the fullness of who she had always been.
2025,
Deepika Naiduu,
English,
Lakshmi Ajoy,