"This book is the story I have wanted to tell for a very long time. For most of my life I lived in the shadow of shame. I was afraid there would be terrible consequences if anyone discovered my gender confusion. Who would want to be my friend? How would I have a career? Who would love me? The past two decades have been a process of coming out of hiding, letting myself be known and leaving shame behind. That process has led me to write this book. I've been blessed with many odd experiences, some stunning misadventures and the acquaintance of many quirky people."
Connelly Akstens (fka Tom Akstens) is an educator, musician, gardener and lover of the outdoors. She has recently published her memoir titled “Without Shame: Learning to Be Me.” In this candid autobiography, Connelly shares her experiences as a transgender individual, reflecting on her life, relationships, and journey towards self-acceptance. The book delves into various aspects, including her beloved grandfather, memories of Boston and Cape Cod, eccentric parents, and even a blowout party for the ages. Through her writing, Connelly invites readers to explore themes of identity, resilience, and the power of embracing one’s true self.
