In 2017, I talked to Kira and asked her about the book: "When I first started my gender transition, I felt isolated and alone. I had so many questions about so many things, from medications to surgery options. I had a vast pool of questions, and what little support I did happen to find, wasn't always very helpful to my specific needs. I decided to start documenting all the information I found so I could possibly help other people along their journey.
Learning about myself and learning to accept negative reactions from family and friends were the hardest parts of my transition. I had to learn to stop caring if someone wanted to be in my life or not.