Full title: "It's Not All About You: Living with a Transsexual Spouse or Partner" by Elisabeth L. Morrissey.
"Your husband tells you he's transsexual. Do you drop him like a hot rock? Could it possibly work out? Read this book! the transsexual process, talking to others, assessing your relationship, finding therapists, maintaining your marriage, jealousy, helping your children adjust, and more. Also for the woman who falls in love with a transsexual. It's not all about him. It's about you."
"Elisabeth Morrissey learned a lot as a volunteer for several years at the Gender Identity Center of Colorado, a transgender support organization, and from her twenty-five-year marriage to a male-to-female transsexual. She is otherwise a homemaker and support system for her spouse, Karen."